This needed to be added. I was talking to Sean about how I was scared to share too much of myself with everyone out there and I think he gave me some great advice.

Sean said: You could just give an insight into the way you see the world. You don't have to tell them about your obsession with the size of your hips or the way you latch on/ push away people. show them the world through your eyes not your personal habits.

So that is what I am going to try to do. Thanks Sean.